Over the past few weeks, I’ve experienced a significant shift in my mindset that has been a true game changer for me, particularly when it comes to my mental health. While I still carry the weight of my past experiences with me, I’ve also become aware of the weight of others, particularly my friend Mabel’s. Given the choice, I’ve decided to focus on the positivity I experience from her and her family.

Recently, I’ve found myself returning to a caption from the movie Stitch, “Broken, but still good,” which resonates with me deeply. At times, I feel like a foreigner to myself, unsure of how I act or think, and sometimes overthink. Yet, it seems like so many people can recognize this trait in others. But for me, it’s just a part of who I am, and I’ve learned to embrace it. After all, being different can mean having a well-thought-out opinion that’s different from others, and that’s something to be celebrated.

We all have our own quirks and experiences, and they contribute to our individual growth. However, it’s important to remember that information doesn’t necessarily equate to right or wrong. Words can evoke emotions, but ultimately, it’s the energy and emotion behind them that truly impacts us. When I’m at my happiest, I feel the emotions of those around me, which can be overwhelming but also enlightening.

I’ve come to realize that the only way to truly be comfortable in my own skin and soul is to be unapologetically myself. This means accepting myself without shame or fear of judgment. It’s been a long time since I’ve felt this way, and I’m incredibly grateful for my friend and her family, who have been a constant source of positivity and support.

During my days off, I’ve found joy in every hour, and while the pace has been fast, I’ve enjoyed every moment. I feel lucky to be here and to be able to journal about my experiences. Finally, I want to leave you with the phrase “claw is the law,” which I thought was hilarious as hell.